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Hello all. I need an outside point of reference as out dog bit our son last week.
Some history. When he was five'ish there was an incident where I was bitten. On the hand and it involved a bit of a shake. The circumstances were that it happened in a large group and some group members were nervous of the dog and as he was trying to welcome them I grabbed his collar and her snapped. Vet gave him a checkup and said perhaps castration would help. I didn't think so but went along with it.
Last week (about 4 years later) my 17 year old was assigned to shower Fiver after he found a huge pile of poop in the woods and rolled in it. He tried "come" and the dog did not want to go in the shower, so he grabbed the collar and tried to tug him in. Fiver broke the skin above and below the forearm with puncture marks. We sort of blamed the boy for perhaps being too rough in our mind but were concerned as it was still unacceptable.
Yesterday we had a get together and were playing badminton. Fiver wanted the birdie. So chaos ensues with everyone yelling and I told him no and used my leg to bar him from grabbing the toy. He started snapping at the air and had my hand been there it would have been bitten.
None of the instances involved what I would call 'resource guarding'. Almost all involved telling him loudly no and then trying to control him.
Fiver is BY FAR the best dog I have ever owned. The most loving dog for the family. Clicker trained. Went through the teen years and has settled in nicely. Now he is graying. His snout is gray and his paws are showing gray. He is becoming more growly (I do not mind growls FWIW) but still lives a pretty good life once he limbers up in the morning. We have an appointment Friday with the vet for a full workup. Our vet is preparing us for the fact that the workup may be negative. In her words, a difficult decision may have to be made if the tests are all negative. So euthanasia is on the table. This is heartbreaking.
The issue is that our household is getting more busy every week with strangers based on our situation. We cannot affort for him to bite anyone else. At the same time he will not tolerate being placed in a room when company is here. We have a 2 acre property where he can run but he prefers to be around people. He has bitten me, then my son. If he were to bite a stranger/friend I would be responsible. The vet seems to think this will only get worse as he gets older. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Is there any advice?
Some history. When he was five'ish there was an incident where I was bitten. On the hand and it involved a bit of a shake. The circumstances were that it happened in a large group and some group members were nervous of the dog and as he was trying to welcome them I grabbed his collar and her snapped. Vet gave him a checkup and said perhaps castration would help. I didn't think so but went along with it.
Last week (about 4 years later) my 17 year old was assigned to shower Fiver after he found a huge pile of poop in the woods and rolled in it. He tried "come" and the dog did not want to go in the shower, so he grabbed the collar and tried to tug him in. Fiver broke the skin above and below the forearm with puncture marks. We sort of blamed the boy for perhaps being too rough in our mind but were concerned as it was still unacceptable.
Yesterday we had a get together and were playing badminton. Fiver wanted the birdie. So chaos ensues with everyone yelling and I told him no and used my leg to bar him from grabbing the toy. He started snapping at the air and had my hand been there it would have been bitten.
None of the instances involved what I would call 'resource guarding'. Almost all involved telling him loudly no and then trying to control him.
Fiver is BY FAR the best dog I have ever owned. The most loving dog for the family. Clicker trained. Went through the teen years and has settled in nicely. Now he is graying. His snout is gray and his paws are showing gray. He is becoming more growly (I do not mind growls FWIW) but still lives a pretty good life once he limbers up in the morning. We have an appointment Friday with the vet for a full workup. Our vet is preparing us for the fact that the workup may be negative. In her words, a difficult decision may have to be made if the tests are all negative. So euthanasia is on the table. This is heartbreaking.
The issue is that our household is getting more busy every week with strangers based on our situation. We cannot affort for him to bite anyone else. At the same time he will not tolerate being placed in a room when company is here. We have a 2 acre property where he can run but he prefers to be around people. He has bitten me, then my son. If he were to bite a stranger/friend I would be responsible. The vet seems to think this will only get worse as he gets older. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Is there any advice?